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Too often, women take care of everything
else in their lives - family, work, community – and neglect to put themselves as a top priority. But,
it’s ok to be a little selfish, as a matter of fact, it’s
vital to your well-being. Women will find that they’re
able to be an even better mom or wife when they’re taking
optimal care of themselves first.
Women should set time aside some special
time just for themselves - whether it’s a relaxing massage, a pilates or yoga session,
or a workout with a personal trainer. And, it doesn’t
have to be an appointment you make. It could also include
walking in the neighborhood, flipping through your favorite magazine,
getting a manicure or pedicure, even taking a nap! And not
just something you do now and then, make this a regular habit. Schedule
this “me” time as you would any other appointment,
and stick to it.
Make Nutrition a Priority
Make yourself a priority when it comes to eating well. This
will have many benefits beyond yourself, too. Women usually plan
and prepare meals and snacks for their kids, but overlook it themselves! Put
the same effort into planning your own meals. Pack a snack
to take with you while you run errands. It only takes a few
minutes, but can make all the difference in keeping energy levels
stable and hunger at bay.
Women often seem to be programmed with
a sense of self-deprivation, constantly saying ‘no thanks’ to all the things they
really enjoy – rich chocolates, gourmet breads, fully-loaded
ice cream. And, as many of these women know, this constant
deprivation can backfire, leading to cravings, often followed by
over-the-top splurges.
So go ahead and indulge periodically. And when you do, don’t
make excuses for it. How many times have you heard someone
say, “ok, I’ll have some cake, I really didn’t
have much for lunch…” Justifications are not
necessary. And, if you decide that you’re going to
indulge, embrace it!
So, think about ways you can start adding
in more “me” time,
and you’ll see benefits beyond just yourself, but your family
and other relationships are sure to benefit as well.
We all have good intentions and usually
plan to cook nutritious, healthy, and (hopefully) tasty meals.
Then life gets in the way. A work deadline takes longer than
you thought; a friend calls; an last-minute urge to go to the
gym surfaces, or you’re
just not in the mood to stand over a hot stove! So, you decide
to go for convenience.
Navigating the frozen dinner aisle at
your local grocery can be a daunting task for even the most seasoned
label-reader. For
the nutrition-conscious, frozen meals can be both a blessing and
a curse. So, how do you determine that fine line between
taste and health?
The Benefits
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Built-in Portion Control - No
worries about exactly how much to serve yourself – it’s
all done for you.
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Nutrition Labels - Makes it easy
to tell exactly what you’re getting, whether your concern
is calories, carbs, protein, fats, sodium, fiber, or all of
the above!
The Downside
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Heavy on Refined Carbohydrates - Since
processed white carbs are the cheapest (pasta, rice, potatoes),
they often take center stage, even in the healthier brands of
dinners.
Carbohydrate content
of frozen dinners can range from 12 grams to 75 grams or more. Keep
in mind that a slice of bread has about 15 grams of carbs – and
use this as a frame of reference when checking the carb content
of frozen dinners.
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Low in Fiber - This goes
hand-in-hand with the processed carbs, of course.
Check labels, looking for a minimum of 5 grams
of carbohydrate per meal. And of course,
when it comes to fiber, more is better!
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Skimpy on Protein - Again, it’s
often a cost issue – and meats are pricier, so frozen meals
frequently have little protein. A good rule of thumb is to
check to see that the frozen dinner provides at least 20 grams
of protein (the amount in a standard 3-ounce chicken breast).
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Not Enough Veggies - Fortunately,
this is easily remedied. Add
a salad of ready-to-eat, pre-washed
greens, or simply steam a generous portion of veggies – frozen
or fresh are equal in nutrient density.
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Too Low in Calories - Yes, this
can actually be a problem! What’s the point
of eating a portion-controlled frozen dinner if you’re starving
an hour later! Even very low-calorie meals should provide
about 250-300 calories. And more moderate-calorie meals should
have about 300-400 calories to have more staying-power.
Top 5 Picks from Elmwood Fitness
Center ‘s Registered
Dietician, Molly Kimball:
|
Calories |
Total Fat (grams) |
Sat Fat (grams) |
Carbohydrate (grams) |
Fiber (grams) |
Protein (grams) |
South
Beach Beef & Broccoli
w/ Asian Noodles |
320 |
13 |
4 |
32 |
9 |
30 |
South Beach Pizza Deluxe |
340 |
11 |
4 |
37 |
10 |
30 |
Healthy Choice Roasted Chicken
Marsala |
250 |
6 |
1.5 |
25 |
6 |
22 |
Healthy Choice Oriental Style
Beef |
310 |
10 |
2.5 |
33 |
6 |
22 |
Ethnic Gourmet Chicken Korma |
360 |
10 |
2 |
34 |
4 |
21 |
Food Fears
No, we’re not talking about being scared of spinach, or
petrified of peas. We’re talking about real fears that
real people have surrounding specific foods.
Many people are familiar with traditional
eating disorders: anorexia,
bulimia, and binge-eating disorder. But many are unaware
that there are unhealthy eating patterns that fall under the radar
of these disorders. They may not meet the strict criteria
to be classified as a clinical ‘eating disorder’, but
no one would argue that these behaviors are cause for concern.
The term used in the nutrition world
is ‘disordered eating’ – which
basically means a person has ‘issues with eating’. These
issues may range from mild idiosyncrasies to obsessive-compulsive
behavior that can severely impact one’s daily life.
Many people, men and women alike, can
harbor irrational fears about foods. They often exhibit very rigid eating habits,
perhaps developing rules about foods, an unwritten ‘list’ of
what’s acceptable and what’s not.
For example, brown rice or sweet potatoes
are deemed acceptable, but whole wheat bread doesn’t make the list. Poultry
gets a thumbs up while even very lean cuts of beef and pork are
off limits. Red wine is fine, but beer is out.
Why is this unhealthy?
The
individual is in a constant state of self-judgment, labeling behaviors
as ‘good’ or ‘bad’. There’s
often a tremendous sense of guilt if they do consume a food or
drink they’ve deemed unacceptable. People with food
fears may find it difficult to adapt to social situations, feeling
anxiety in unfamiliar environments where they don’t know
what to expect, or what foods will be available.
Not only do these fears waste a great deal of precious energy,
this all-or-nothing approach can lead to binging on the forbidden
foods, once that first bite of pizza, chocolate, bread, is taken.
What’s more, food fears are not always logical – usually
they’re not.
Check out the following examples of food fears:
Olive oil is
ok, butter is
off limits. Many are surprised to learn that a tablespoon of
olive oil has 120 calories and 13 grams of fat, while the same
amount of butter has 100 calories and 11 grams of fat. Sure,
the type of fat in olive oil is healthier for your arteries over
the long term. But the point is that a little butter on your
veggies isn’t going to make-or-break your health, or your
waistline.
Turkey slices rolled up with a bowl of
fresh fruit is
a ‘safe’ choice for many – not realizing the
carbs and calories would be exactly the same for a turkey sandwich
on whole wheat bread.
How about the fact that 3 ounces of grilled
salmon has
175 calories, 12 grams fat, 2 grams saturated fat, while the same
amount of beef filet has 165 calories, 7 grams
fat, and 3 grams saturated fat. Pretty much identical, although
beef filet is on many people’s ‘unhealthy’ list.
When it comes to alcohol, many people
opt for wine (or liquor,
on a big night out), but never beer if they can
help it. Well, a 5-ounce glass of wine, 1½ ounces
liquor, or a 12-ounce light beer ALL have approximately 100 calories – and
under 4-5 grams of sugar.
Do you see the problem? Logically, it just doesn’t
make sense.
The calories, carbs, and fat are all about equal in the above examples. Of
course certain foods are more nutrient-dense options, and should
be the mainstay of your diet. But that doesn’t mean
that the other foods are ‘bad’ and shouldn’t
be enjoyed occasionally.
Why do Food Fears Occur?
Following
a strict set of rules can give an individual a sense of control,
which makes them feel secure. They know what
to expect. It’s natural for many people to prefer
the ‘black-and-white’ approach. Deciding between
shades of gray isn’t structured enough for some, and can
cause many people to feel uncomfortable.
Developing food ‘rules’ becomes a coping strategy. It
helps preserve a person’s sense of safety, and on some levels
can almost become their identity.
What to do to remedy it?
Unfortunately,
rigid food rules can stand in the way of real life. If
you find yourself following strict self-imposed food rules, take
a step back and try to look at things logically.
Investigate. Ask yourself why you feel that you need this
sense of control? Is there an underlying emotion that you’re
avoiding by controlling your food environment? Are there
other areas of your life that cause you to feel sadness, anger,
or anxiety, and these negative feelings are manifested in this
display of control over eating?
Look objectively at the facts. Research the nutrition information
on your ‘usual’ foods, and your favorite but ‘off-limits’ foods. See
if there’s truly a significant difference, and if there’s
a way to incorporate these foods into your diet occasionally.
Consider a food journal, jotting down
when and what you eat (or don’t eat), when you feel anxiety surrounding foods, why
you don’t allow yourself to eat a particular food.
It may be beneficial to meet with a therapist
and/or a registered dietitian who can guide you through your
food fears. And
just think of how much more enjoyable it’ll be to feel free
to eat the foods you love!
First, your 4pm meeting ran over an hour,
then there’s homework
to be done, dinner to cook, bills to pay, phone calls to make. For
busy women struggling to find a balance between their careers and
life at home, finding time to exercise can prove especially difficult. Here
are some tips to help keep you motivated to move…
1. Exercise in the morning.
It’s a proven fact that women who work out in the morning
stick with their programs more successfully than those who don’t.
The longer you wait in the day to work out, the more excuses you
can find to put it off. A bonus: Women who exercise at the beginning
of the day feel significantly happier than those who worked out
later in the day.
2. Do the big four.
If you don’t have a lot of time, focus primarily on larger
muscles which target the trouble zones. Do squats, push-ups,
lunges, and the plank pose back-to-back three or four times without
taking a break.
3. Play with the kids.
Join the kids in shooting some hoops, playing football, dancing
in the living room or going for a bike ride.
4. Get the right buddy.
Find an exercise partner – a colleague or a friend of a
friend – who you aren’t likely to blow off with a quick
e-mail or a sorry excuse. If it is not a really close friend,
you will probably feel more obligated to get to your workout appointments
on a regular basis.
5. Take the stairs.
We know you’ve heard it before, but it works. Skip
the elevator and take the stairs, park at the far end of the parking
lot, walk or ride your bike to places close by. These little
bursts of activity can add up to significant calories burned each
day.
6. Do 20-minute interval training.
If you’re short on time, bursts of intense activity followed
by a brief recovery period gets great results. Warm up for
a few minutes, sprint or walk on a steep incline for 30 seconds,
then return to a slower pace for two or three minutes; repeat five
or six times.
7. Make an exercise date.
Taking a brisk stroll with a friend is a great way to catch up
on the latest gossip and burn calories.
8. Reward yourself.
Treat yourself to something small at the end of each week if you
can stick to your exercise plan.
Breast Cancer: Can
You Beat the Odds?
The American Cancer Society estimates
that by the end of 2007, 178,480 women in the United States will
be diagnosed with new cases of breast cancer. They estimate that
40,460 will die from the disease.
These statistics strike terror into even
the strongest female heart, especially since there are so many
risk factors that are completely out of our control. We can’t
do anything about such risk factors as being a woman, having
family history of cancer, age at onset of menstruation, or the
age menopause begins.
But women can put the odds more
in their favor by improving their diet, maintaining a healthy
weight, and increasing their level of physical activity. These
proactive steps have all been linked to reducing the risk of
developing breast cancer.
Nothing is absolute and nothing has been conclusively proven to
protect you from developing breast cancer. However, it is certainly
worth your while to consider adopting one or more or all of the
following recommendations. The worst that can happen is that your
overall health and wellbeing will be enhanced. So go for it!
Weight
The leaner you are, the lower the risk. There is an established
link between excess weight and breast cancer. The more body fat
a woman has, the more estrogen she typically produces, therefore
increasing her risk for breast cancer.
Exercise
You already know vigorous and regular
exercise can help you achieve and maintain a healthy weight.
Another benefit is that it lowers the levels of circulating estrogen,
which in turn lowers the risk for breast cancer. Every four hours
of rigorous exercise in a week translates into a phenomenal reduction
in risk of 30% to 40% on average. That’s worth exercising
for!
Nutrition
It’s hard for researchers to accurately study and track
peoples’ diet over a long period of time. Consequently,
it’s difficult to identify and isolate specific cancer-fighting,
or cancer-causing, components. Most of the recommendations
made here are things you know to do anyway. So that fact that they
could also lessen your risk of breast cancer is all the more reason
to start them or keep them up:
Saturated fat,
the infamous artery-clogging substance, is also theorized to
increase a woman’s
risk for breast cancer. All the more reason to follow the guidelines
and keep your intake under 20 grams
daily.
Omega 3 fatty
acids,
on the other hand, are said to improve heart function and minimize
inflammation. They have been linked to a drop in breast cancer
risk. If you’re not
consuming omega-3-rich fish most days (think salmon, cod, halibut,
sardines), consider supplementing with two grams of fish
oil daily.
Hormone Residue can be found in food in food
but exposure can be minimized when you look for organic beef and
dairy products. Organic poultry is good, but not necessary, as
it is illegal for even conventionally raised poultry to be given
hormones.
Alcohol appears
to increase estrogen production. Some research shows that the
risk of developing breast cancer goes up by about
7% for each drink per day. The type
of alcohol doesn’t really seem to matter - beer, wine, and
liquor all increase the risk for breast cancer, according to several
recent studies. Experts say that for occasional social drinkers,
alcohol consumption isn’t likely to affect risk at all. But
for women who want to do everything possible to decrease their
risk, then limiting alcohol, or avoiding it altogether, is advisable.
There is strong evidence that diets high
in fruits and vegetables have
protective effects against certain types of cancer. Though breast
cancer has not yet proven to be one of these types of cancer,
there is still good reason to pack your diet with nutrient-dense,
phytochemical-rich fruits and vegetables. In fact, the American
Cancer Society asserts that if Americans were to eat a healthy,
balanced diet emphasizing plant foods that help them maintain
a healthy weight, as many as one-third of all cancer deaths in
the U. S. could be prevented. Which
fruits and veggies are best? All of them, really. Rotating
a variety of fruits and veggies through your diet is the best
way to ensure you’re getting highest possible level of
natural vitamins, minerals, and phytochemicals.
Soy is a controversial
topic, especially when it comes to breast cancer. Soy contains isoflavones, which
have a weak estrogenic effect. Our body’s estrogen is much
stronger than these estrogen-like compounds in soy. So theoretically,
if the isoflavones replace the body’s estrogen in cell’s
receptors, it is possible that soy will protect against estrogen-dependent
breast cancer. There is evidence, though, that soy protein may
cause estrogen-depended breast tumors to grow faster, in direct
relationship to how much soy is consumed. Your best bet would be
to stick with whole soy foods and avoid concentrated
powders or pills, which contain more concentrated amounts of isoflavones.
For women currently
undergoing treatment for breast cancer,
or for breast cancer survivors, be sure to check
with your physician before taking any over-the-counter herbal or
dietary supplements, since some of them could possibly interfere
with treatment.
The bottom line is that a woman can do
everything in her power to lessen her risk for breast cancer
and still get the dreaded diagnosis. But rather than live in
fear of the disease, focus on living life to the fullest, and
taking the best care of your body that you know how to – after all, it’s the only one
you’ve got.
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